Jalan2 (new member) - i didn't think it would take so much trouble to persuade her to become a swinger, but hell it was several YEARS before she agreed to share our bed with other men. let me tell you friends, NOTHING beats watching your wife enjoying "new dicks" although i must confess 6 our of 10 men i set-up really disappointed me in their attitude; i.e. pleasure your partner before finishing off! Its unbelievable the number of people in this "lifestyle" in KL & Singapore... well, not in 1,000s like in sydney or new york, but still for conservative asian country like ours, its really a big surprise there're MANY couples doing this. enuff talking, so, here she is, and some of our new friends too. thx for welcoming us to sammyboyforum!